Romans 1:12, 32
“…that you and I may be mutually encouraged by each other’s faith…”
“…Although they know God’s righteous decree… they not only continue to do these very things but also approve of those who practice them.”
TL;DR:
The people closest to you shape your direction. Choose friends who strengthen your faith, not your weaknesses.
These two verses highlight something powerful: influence matters.
You are either being mutually encouraged in your faith—or slowly pulled away from it.
In AA, fellowship is essential. Surrounding yourself with people who genuinely desire sobriety strengthens your resolve. You need people who understand your struggle and want the same growth you want.
The same is true in your Christian walk. You need friends who point you toward Jesus, not away from Him.
I remember my boys learning in kindergarten how to choose friends: good friends are kind, generous, sharing, and responsible. Bad friends are selfish, mean, greedy, and unkind. Simple. Clear. True.
As adults, we tend to complicate it.
Sometimes you think you can change people by spending time with them. Occasionally that happens. But more often, the opposite is true—you slowly adapt to the tone, habits, and values of your inner circle.
You don’t have to reject people. You are called to love everyone.
But not everyone belongs in your inner circle.
Your closest relationships should:
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Encourage your faith
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Strengthen your convictions
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Challenge you to grow
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Celebrate obedience
If someone consistently approves of what you are trying to leave behind, be cautious.
Today, embrace the friends who help you become who you want to be. Protect your inner circle carefully.
Love all.
Choose wisely.
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